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It is better to give than receive

Acts 20:35 35In everything I did, I showed you that by this kind of hard work we must help the weak, remembering the words the LORD Jesus himself said: ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’ “

We all the opportunity to give to others each day and often several times a day. It could be as simple as a smile, opening a door for someone, allowing someone to go in front of you in the checkout line, or even a phone call. There are so ways to give. Yet, many of us get so caught up in own lives we do not even think about giving. Many years ago, I attended a life changing weekend where the motto, “Givers gain and takers loose,” was the theme. We learned the simple act of a hug could change our perspective when we learn to give as well as receive.

During these times where so many people have been impacted monetarily, emotionally, and physically giving is crucial. It may change a depressed, overwhelmed, or angry persons demeanor and outlook. One act of giving can turn a bad day into a great day, it means making people happier and more productive. It also often causes the giver to have more joy as well.

The opposite is true of takers. They are often selfish and draining on their relationship with others. They are the ones that always want things their way. They tend to go from zero to angry in seconds. They sometimes throw tantrums even as adults.  They often give begrudgingly, expect something in return, or because they are wanting to appear like the they are givers. They are only happy when things are going their way, or they are doing what they want to do. But as soon as they are told “No” or are alone their happiness fades and they become lonely, sad and depression and anger creep in. Takers also always blame others for things. It is never their fault no matter what. The often cannot say, “I am sorry.”

Though this may be true of takers, the opposite is true of givers. By watching others smile when they receive the giver reaps the benefits of a happy heart making them more joyful and productive. Have you ever started out having a bad day only to have it change because someone did something unexpected which changed your perspective? When we give to others without expecting something return, both parties gain. Just taking 5 minutes out of your day can change someone else’s outlook as well as your own.  We can all live better more blessed lives when we give freely to each other